Rox asks:

I recently had a ceremony which was in a very sunny/hot location, I asked the guests multiple times to move over to the ceremony area but they all resisted and stayed in the shade. I walked over and specifically asked them to move over and some did but some still didn’t. It wasn’t until the amazing but stern looking photographer waved her camera at them and asked them to move did they do so. I am a very outgoing and direct kind of gal (husband says bossy, I say leadership skills) but I couldn’t get them to move. What’s your tips?