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In the chaotic and wild adventure that planning and hosting a wedding is I always try to remain a calm, cool, friendly face to my couples. This sounds like a great idea, but you need systems and processes to allow yourself to be that cool and calm. I was inspired recently by Hans Hofmann, the artist, who talked about simplicity as "The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak." ...