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"Here's a fun one for you guys. How do you deal with crying? I'm currently studying and in my performance assignment, my "bride" burst into tears and I realised I was totally unprepared for what I imagine is a very common occurrence. Do I just hand her a tissue and keep going? Do I wait until she regains composure? Do I try cracking a joke? Do I devise a "safe" word with the couple before the ceremony? I don't want to embarrass anyone by drawing attention to it or making them feel bad about their reactions, but I also want to make sure they have a wonderful ceremony and can be present in the moment. How do long-time pros handle the floods of emotions from the couples – crying, uncontrollable giggling, nervous twitches? I'd love to know your techniques and any other thoughts from celebrants in the comments section."