Speaking to a group of people who don’t have to listen to you is a privilege I don’t take lightly. As a celebrant, it’s a daily honour, and it comes with an immense responsibility every time I pick up that microphone. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just starting out, my hope is that every celebrant learns how to be a powerful speaker and a meaningful communicator—a rockstar at the wedding.

But let’s get one thing straight: The world doesn’t need celebrants who crave the celebrity spotlight.