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I'm flying to Europe soon and I've put in for a first class upgrade. On Qantas you can apply for an upgrade and it costs you thousands of frequent flyer points. That's how you fly first class, either that or you pony up the cash for it. In the history of flying the smallest handful of people have been upgraded to first class on a whim. But if you talk to most people that don't fly that often they will share the myth that if you are dressed well, looking sharp, feeling pretty, and you are nice to the check-in staff, the boarding staff, and the cabin crew, that you will hopefully be chosen for an upgrade. That's the problem with the areas of life that we don't touch on often, they're filled with mystery and intrigue ...