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Tenielle asks: Hey guys, I'm hoping you can lend me some advice or wording to send to a couple. Met with them on Saturday and whilst they are lovely, the vibe was NOT there. Conversation was really stunted and it didn't seem like a natural fit from my perspective. I'm really not wanting to take their booking, but I don't know how to politely tell them, 'Thanks but no thanks'. I'm especially aware of any legal obligations we have to marry couples and not discriminate against them.I would use the whole, 'Sorry I'm double booked!' route, but their date just opened for my bookings and that would be a blatantly obvious lie.